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Using Personal Stories in Your Business Book

Stuart Bell 2 min read

Business owners thinking about writing a book for their business often need help using personal stories to reinforce their message.

One group dismisses them, thinking, "this is a book about a service. It doesn't need stories." The other focuses too much on their journey, making it too much about themselves rather than tying it back to the reader.

Stories are powerful for two reasons. They help readers picture themselves in the situation you're describing, often mentally filling in the blanks themselves between the story and their unique position. They also help reinforce your point by building credibility and authority, as you're not just telling readers something but demonstrating where it happened.

Stories help readers picture themselves in the situation you're describing, often mentally filling in the blanks themselves between the story and their unique position.

I recently recorded a podcast with Tim and Patricia Ash, who use their financial crisis story to do just that. Their book, Debt B Gone, a guide to getting out of debt, starts by describing their journey and how it relates to the reader. They use it to create empathy by demonstrating how they've been through the same situation and credibility by sharing their results.

The good news is stories don't need to only be your own. Sharing the experience of clients or colleagues is just as beneficial, and anonymizing the details is simple to do if you're concerned about privacy.

Three Easy Ways to Include Stories That Work

Use many short examples to illustrate individual points rather than one big story. Crafting one perfect example is difficult and can lose focus, whereas short examples that reinforce one point are easier to remember and connect to your message.

Don't spend time building background or "setting the scene." You're not writing a novel. Backstory, character development, and narrative journey are unimportant and will slow you down. You just need short, relevant examples that share the story's emotion.

Keep examples on point and the conversation moving. Stories have a habit of meandering and drifting over time. Check that you're staying relevant, keep it tight, and use the story as a bridge to your next point.

It's more art than science, but these three checkpoints will help create the opportunity to build a connection with your readers and move the conversation toward how you can help them.